Re: A discussion on TFES forum
Posted: Mon Feb 22, 2016 11:50 pm
You aren't understanding. It doesn't matter whose "fault" it is. The bottom line is the consequences: Fewer people will be convinced to go vegan, and more animals will suffer and die. I don't care whose "fault" you want to say it is.RanOverByATrain wrote: If someone thinks vegans are crazy because a vegan has a tattoo, that's not the vegan's fault and I don't believe we should be blaming the vegan for that.
If YOU are vegan, YOU are the one who is aware in this situation, then YOU have a choice of whether to put a tattoo on your face and advocate Flat Earth or not. YOU decide whether you will present yourself with some normalcy, and the consequences follow from that. You can't control how OTHER people will react, so you can only meet them where they are.
Please read this: http://ccc.farmsanctuary.org/be-a-bette ... eadvocacy/
You don't have time to do that, they're already not listening to you or considering what you say the moment you walk up to them with a facial tattoo.RanOverByATrain wrote: We should be telling the people who believe that that it's illogical and that not all vegans are any one way.
And if you don't have a facial tattoo and are normal, do you really want to spend the thirty seconds you have for an elevator pitch telling them that, or are you going to spend it effectively delivering a real vegan message about health, the environment, and animal suffering?
Face time is a limited resource. You're wasting time if you're trying to complicate the issue with more barriers to entry.
Sure they do. But they already eat meat. A person with a facial tattoo is only going to change people's minds about which side of the street to walk on, because they're not going to listen to anything that person has to say.RanOverByATrain wrote: They don't think that way about meat eaters with tattoos on their faces.
If your teeth are significantly worse than average, then you should fix your teeth if you can. This will improve your job and income prospects, as well as help you with advocacy. Do not put this off.RanOverByATrain wrote: Should I not tell people I'm vegan? What am I supposed to tell them if they ask why I don't want to eat whatever they offer me that's not vegan?
However, you may just be self conscious. If you PM me with a picture of your smile, I can give you honest feedback as to whether they are bad enough to affect your vegan advocacy, or if you're just being too hard on yourself.
This is an entirely different issue, though.
People CHOOSE to tattoo their faces, and they CHOOSE to publicly advocate Flat Earth. You didn't choose to have bad teeth.
However, if you're passionate about advocating for animals and they really are that bad, then if and as soon as you can fix them you should do so. Particularly if you live in the states (in the UK it's not as big an issue).
No, my problem is the issue of public perception. Religion is illogical too. People don't care much about logic, they care about being normal and listening to other people who seem normal.RanOverByATrain wrote: Is your only problem with it being illogical then?
I care about the consequences: the net effect that your actions have on animals through influencing others (or failing to influence others because of your behavior).
Most active members in those discussions seem to be people who believe in a round Earth who come to try to convince the Flat Earthers.RanOverByATrain wrote: Less than 1%, like you said, most likely. Enough to have a forum though.
Neo-nazis have enough to have forums. "Alien abductees" have enough to have forums. The internet has access to the population of the world to draw from.
Anyway, the point is that advocating for a Flat Earth is more likely to harm your credibility than help it in the eyes of those you are trying to convince to go vegan. You shouldn't do it.
If you sincerely believe it, then you should keep it to yourself.
Like what? I'm open to suggestions.RanOverByATrain wrote: Why not make it interesting by talking about interesting things?
Right, but there are more witnesses to debate than participants. You're not usually going to convince the person you're arguing with, but instead people who are on the fence and reading.RanOverByATrain wrote: I agree that a lot of people want to see it. Some of those people will get offended if you do it to them though.
Look at how well Trump is doing in the primaries. He's a much bigger asshole than I am (he may be overdoing it a bit). The evidence is on the side of the assholes when it comes to public debate and rhetoric.
You're a bit out of touch. The latter can be much more offensive to more people, and reflect more poorly on your personal character to the public.RanOverByATrain wrote: I don't see why people get offended by generalizations. To me, there's a difference between saying
"RanOverByATrain, you're a whore."
and
"Women are whores."
Telling somebody he or she is an X may be more offensive to that person specifically (though it may not be, some people shrug off personal insults but take insults to others much more seriously), but much less so to all of the others reading. Making a generalization attacks everybody listening/watching/reading.
That is close to the ideal situation, but even lacking that it can work.RanOverByATrain wrote: She insulted you first in that thread. That doesn't make it ok, but that's a bit different.
I'm not using it to force people to agree, I'm using it to get the person to understand. That's different from superficial agreement.RanOverByATrain wrote: The thing is when you use negative emotions to get people to agree with you, they are only trying to get those negative emotions to go away. They might not actually agree with you and just go back to what they were doing before.
Cats are not humans, and we're not just talking about behavior.RanOverByATrain wrote: Punishing cats to get them to stop doing something does keep them from doing it...while you're there.
When you're trying to get somebody to understand a logical concept, the thing that's preventing that understanding is the wall of rationalization that person has put up. Once you take down that wall, you need to act quickly to get the person to understand before the wall goes back up, but once you do, that understanding can be much more persistent.
The key is making sure the person understands, and is not just agreeing to avoid criticism. Anyway, even if they do just agree, you can work with that too -- study a little psychology, it can be very helpful to understand cognitive dissonance and how it works in persuasion.
I'm interested with what works in debate, in my experience, and stops the negative behavior long term to save animals from death and suffering.RanOverByATrain wrote: I don't think that it would be an interesting thread because I agree with you that it can work. I just don't think it's ok to insult people in a debate. Just because it can work doesn't make it ok. Insulting actions is ok.
Very often, the win is for the audience, not for the person you're debating. I don't usually expect the people I'm debating on carnism to change their minds (at least not right away). It's a pleasant surprise when they do.RanOverByATrain wrote: It sounds like what you want is to "win" a debate, more than just discuss things and have other people see your side. I think that may be the difference.
That's fine, too. And if you don't have an audience, that's actually better. Like one-on-one in person discussion. I never insult people one-on-one in person. It's a different environment which requires different practice for optimal efficacy. The article I linked to above is a good example of one-on-one practice.RanOverByATrain wrote: I can see why many vegans want to convert people and it's good that they do, but when I talk about veganism to people, I just want them to see my side and to see it's not crazy and makes sense. One day they might realize they can do it too and become vegan themselves.
It's better to say that both are horrible, but one is more horrible than the other.RanOverByATrain wrote: Most would probably rather say that neither 1 person being killed or 1000 people being killed is better because it's not good that anybody is being killed.
I'm aware of this, but what are you saying this has anything to do with?RanOverByATrain wrote: If you buy pet rats from a rat mill, you are supporting the cruelty that goes on and making the problem worse. You may be saving those rats, but you are causing others to suffer. It can be tempting because those rats never did anything wrong and you can help those innocent rats, but you aren't helping. It would also apply to buying feeder rats to keep as pets too. You could say that if you don't buy feeder rats, you are causing them to be killed. If you had bought them, they would have not been killed. But you are making the problem worse if you save those ones. The best things to do are to not give them any money and to encourage others not to either.
Right, just focus on veganism if that's the case.RanOverByATrain wrote: I believe that assisted suicide is ok. Most people consider that murder, even though the person wanted to die. Should I not say that to people?
If you're talking to a Christian, you can cite Biblical verses.
If you're talking to a Buddhist, cite Buddhist beliefs.
Meet people where they are. Don't distract from the issue with irrelevant topics.
These things often come up for me because I'm using pretty advanced philosophical arguments here, but with most people they never would and I would avoid covering these. The carnists on this forum are more intelligent and educated than the general population, and require a different standard of discourse.