Why it is wrong for humans to breed
Posted: Sat Feb 08, 2020 4:01 pm
I think it is wrong - seriously wrong - for a human to make the voluntary decision to breed. This is for three main reasons.
The first of these is that we cause harm to others. Even if our own lives contain more happiness than misery - which is by no means guaranteed, of course - we cause considerable harm to other creatures. Perhaps you are managing to minimise the amount of harm you, as an individual, are contributing. But you can't exercise that kind of control over anyone you create. And, given that most people are not especially moral, much less saintly, you can reasonably expect that any offspring you have will create more harm than good overall.
The second of these is the fact that we cannot consent to be born and thus anyone you create has been forced to live. It is generally wrong to force things on people. There are exceptions. But the exceptional cases are nearly always ones in which it is quite obvious why they are exceptions - they are exceptions because forcing the person to do something was the only available way of preventing that person (or someone else) from coming to a very great harm. Clearly that kind of exceptional circumstance is not one that applies to the decision to procreate, at least not in the main.
The third reason we ought not to breed has to do with the kind of character traits one would be showing oneself to possess by doing so. As such it applies to the typical motivations behind the voluntary decision to breed. Take, for instance, the desire to be loved unconditionally. Many people (not all, obviously) have children because they want to be loved unconditionally. Well, that, I think, is a very unhealthy motive and someone who acts on it is not a virtuous person. For just to be clear - such a person wants to be loved 'no matter what'. That is, they want to be loved unreasonably. Furthermore, they are willing to contrive to create circumstances under which someone is likely to love them in that way involuntarily. So, someone who has a child in order to be the object of that child's unthinking, unconditional affection is, I think, a wrong-un. A decent person tries to persuade another to love him/her by force of his/her personality, not by biological manipulation.
Or take the desire to have someone who'll look after you in old age. Well, someone who has a child in order to have a servant is, again, not a good person. It is, after all, not the child's fault you face old age alone. Your parents created that situation for you. The blame is on them. They owe you, not the child. So having a child to look after you in old age is to do no better than perpetuate a crime committed by your parents. It is to do to others as you have been done by. It is not virtuous at all.
Or take the desire - this time less egotistical, admittedly - to provide workers for the economy. As well as being economically misguided (if we all stopped breeding tomorrow the economy would boom - breeding is bad for the economy, not good for it), it is to engage in forced labour. It is wrong to force people to work. So if you breed in order to provide workers for the economy you are engaging in forced labour. And that isn't virtuous.
So, it seems to me, then, that voluntary breeding is wrong and bad.
The first of these is that we cause harm to others. Even if our own lives contain more happiness than misery - which is by no means guaranteed, of course - we cause considerable harm to other creatures. Perhaps you are managing to minimise the amount of harm you, as an individual, are contributing. But you can't exercise that kind of control over anyone you create. And, given that most people are not especially moral, much less saintly, you can reasonably expect that any offspring you have will create more harm than good overall.
The second of these is the fact that we cannot consent to be born and thus anyone you create has been forced to live. It is generally wrong to force things on people. There are exceptions. But the exceptional cases are nearly always ones in which it is quite obvious why they are exceptions - they are exceptions because forcing the person to do something was the only available way of preventing that person (or someone else) from coming to a very great harm. Clearly that kind of exceptional circumstance is not one that applies to the decision to procreate, at least not in the main.
The third reason we ought not to breed has to do with the kind of character traits one would be showing oneself to possess by doing so. As such it applies to the typical motivations behind the voluntary decision to breed. Take, for instance, the desire to be loved unconditionally. Many people (not all, obviously) have children because they want to be loved unconditionally. Well, that, I think, is a very unhealthy motive and someone who acts on it is not a virtuous person. For just to be clear - such a person wants to be loved 'no matter what'. That is, they want to be loved unreasonably. Furthermore, they are willing to contrive to create circumstances under which someone is likely to love them in that way involuntarily. So, someone who has a child in order to be the object of that child's unthinking, unconditional affection is, I think, a wrong-un. A decent person tries to persuade another to love him/her by force of his/her personality, not by biological manipulation.
Or take the desire to have someone who'll look after you in old age. Well, someone who has a child in order to have a servant is, again, not a good person. It is, after all, not the child's fault you face old age alone. Your parents created that situation for you. The blame is on them. They owe you, not the child. So having a child to look after you in old age is to do no better than perpetuate a crime committed by your parents. It is to do to others as you have been done by. It is not virtuous at all.
Or take the desire - this time less egotistical, admittedly - to provide workers for the economy. As well as being economically misguided (if we all stopped breeding tomorrow the economy would boom - breeding is bad for the economy, not good for it), it is to engage in forced labour. It is wrong to force people to work. So if you breed in order to provide workers for the economy you are engaging in forced labour. And that isn't virtuous.
So, it seems to me, then, that voluntary breeding is wrong and bad.